The Art of Difficult Conversations

Why do some conversations with your spouse feel so difficult? 

Is it because we assume certain intentions—or are we avoiding conflict out of fear of what might happen? 

In this episode, Delia speaks with Wai Hoong, a Life and Marriage Coach, to explore what truly makes difficult conversations challenging. They share insights on how assumptions, fear, and unspoken values can create tension, and how staying open and curious can lead to deeper understanding. 

Discover practical ways to keep communication flowing and learn how to approach tough topics with courage and compassion. You don’t have to avoid the hard stuff—there’s a way through it. 

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” 

- Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)  

 

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